Here’s what you should actually do if you think you’re a narcissist
Typically, if you’re really, truly a narcissist, you probably won’t really know or be able to recognize that you are one.
And if you do realize that you’re pretty self-centered, you might not think that there’s anything wrong with that.
If you do start to suspect that you might be a narcissist, mindfully asking about others is just one thing that you can do to help.
If you like to talk about yourself or find that you spend a lot of time thinking about yourself, that doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re a narcissist or even overly self-centered: many people like to talk about themselves.
It’s also understandable (and maybe even a good thing) if you spend a lot of time thinking about your life and your goals. However, if you do recognize that you spend a lot of time focused on yourself, that could potentially set off some alarm bells in your brain and make you start to question whether or not you spend too much time on yourself.