Feelings of Unworthiness Tied to Narcissists Making Us “Earn” Everything
“Trust isn’t just given. It must be earned.” If I had a a dollar for all the times I’ve heard that! Unfortunately, that (very erroneous!) dynamic didn’t just apply to trust. It applied to e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g, from physical items to age-appropriate milestones to relationships. Everything must be earned. That’s how narcissists think. Nothing is a “given” because it’s “normal” because there is no normalcy in their world. The narcissist’s version of reality operates like some Cosmic Vending Machine that must be impressed before it’ll dispense.
Everything Must Be Earned
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